If you’re ready to introduce a little kink to your life here’s a piece of advice for you. Taking it slow and not breaching trust are the two single most important things you can do. If you’re in a long-term relationship and want to spice things up a little with BDSM, now is as good a time as any.

Use a Blindfold

Use a Blindfold

Using a blindfold is definitely a good start for BDSM rookies. You can literally use any familiar piece of cloth as a blindfold that you already have in the house as long as it’s not sheer. This is a safe step toward BDSM sexual pleasure, and yet every touch will feel different because you or your partner won’t be able to anticipate where it’s going to be. Use an old tie, a bandana or an old (clean) rag to fashion a blindfold. Experiment with it and see whether you prefer to be blindfolded or you’d rather do ‘the work’ while the other person is unable to see you.



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